Question: Can you message on OK Cupid?

Once youve liked someone, youll see a message button on their profile. Click to compose an introductory message and send! Please note: You can only send one initial message, so make it a good one! If the other person hasnt liked you yet, you wont see their profile (or your sent message) until they like you back.

Can anyone message you on OkCupid?

We think its best when conversations are between people who are interested in each other. However, on OkCupid (unlike other apps) you have the opportunity to send an introduction to someone before theyve liked you. And messaging on OkCupid is always free!

Do you have to like someone on OkCupid to message them?

Yes, you do have to Like someone to send them a message. We want conversations to be only between people who are interested in each other, so you have to Like someone before messaging them.

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